In business….in friendships…in relationships…in anything…sometimes I hear and see people claiming to be the victims of certain situations.

And witnessing this made me think…

Are we the ultimate creators of our own reality?

For the most part…Yes.

And when we put things into motion, they usually happen…right?

Usually.

There is however…that once in a while….when we put things into motion and we DON’T get the desired outcome.

And when we didn’t get that desired outcome…we tend to blame others and outside things/influences.

It’s a completely natural tendency to not wanna be “wrong”…I mean who REALLY wants to be “wrong”?

When we take the power away from ourselves and we throw it onto other people/things for something that WE did or something WE caused to happen in the first place…we usually need to point that finger right back at ourselves…because that type of selfishness only DENIES others the chance to grow!

We need to learn how to hold OURSELVES accountable FIRST and understand that (for the most part) only YOU can be held accountable for your actions. When we stop blaming others and outside things and we stand up and own our own sh*t….we take that negativity, bring it inside, and turn it into positivity…and we become stronger…together….drastically changing how we feel about the situation and how it ends up turning out.

Amish Shah

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